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A Contemporary Study of
Interracial Dating and Relationship Practices of College Age Students from
Hawaii
by Andrea Siu
INTRODUCTION
As the predominately Black-White
binary in America begins to shift to a multiracial discourse, the importance of
studying existing multiracial communities and changing race relations has
emerged. As an example of changing demographics in America, Texas, New Mexico,
California, Hawaii, and the District of Columbia all hold the title of
“majority-minority” states, with Maryland, Mississippi, Georgia, New York, and
Arizona next in line (Bernstein 1). This shift in population encourages racial
mixing. The ability to check multiple racial boxes on the 2000 Census reflects
the nationwide trend toward a multiracial population. Consequently the dilemma
of assigning a racial identity to a multiracial person has become a growing
problem in recent years. In a country still rife with ethnic enclaves and
self-segregation, where does a multiracial person fit? In an effort to answer
the questions raised by a multiracial identity, people have turned to Hawaii and
its long and visible history of hapa.
The term hapa
began in Hawaii and reflects the multiracial demographics of one of the most
isolated geographical areas in the world. According to the Hawaiian dictionary
hapa means “of mixed blood, person of mixed blood”, establishing a moniker for
the infinite number of racial combinations that exist in Hawaii (Pukui and
Elbert 58). Interest in hapas has steadily been gaining ground in the
continental United States as communities become aware of an increasing number of
people who claim a multiracial identity.
The creation of a
new multiracial population begins with dating and relationships that often take
place in college. Yet ideas of beauty and tolerance typically form many years
before college. In this research paper I will focus specifically on the dating
and relationship practices of college age students from Hawaii. I will look at
the factors that affect interracial sexual relationships in Hawaii, such as
history, current demographics, and interethnic relationships. I will then
analyze the change or lack of change in opinions towards race that occur when
students from Hawaii live in new environments and confront the politicized
version of race that exists on many college campuses in the United States. If
America wants to learn from Hawaii’s example it will have to understand the
value system that has been impressed upon people in Hawaii and how these values
affect the dating and relationship choices that lead to the production of the
next generation.
LITERATURE REVIEW
The scholarly
works written about Hawaii’s multiracial population and interracial marriages
began in the early part of the twentieth century. Well before hapas gained
visibility in America, scholars predicted the trend and were fascinated by the
meeting of “East and West” in Hawaii. The large Asian and white populations in
Hawaii and the subsequent intermarriage between these two groups also
contributed to the notion of “East and West”. In 1937 Romanzo Adams published a
book entitled Interracial Marriage in Hawaii that analyzed the routine
practice of interracial marriage in Hawaii. Adams cites the “special conditions
of the past”, such as, abnormal sex ratios, the size of various racial groups,
land distribution, opportunity factors, and the open attitude towards
interracial marriage as factors that all contributed to the prevalence and
acceptance of interracial marriage in Hawaii (191, 204). Additionally the lack
of anti-miscegenation laws in Hawaii facilitated the social acceptance of
interracial marriages. Adams writes, “There is no law against such
intermarriage. While there may be much opposition within some families there is
no general social disapproval” (20). The combination of legal intermarriage,
social acceptance, and the high level of interest in Hawaii’s multiracial
community also created a well of statistical and racial.
Because the amalgamation through intermarriage is open and above-board in
Hawaii, a statistical record is possible, and because there has been sufficient
interest in the matter for a long time, very valuable statistics are available.
This is more valuable to our purpose because it classifies persons according to
racial origin, not according to nativity. For example, a child, all of whose
great-grandparents came from Portugal, is classified as Portuguese, whereas in
other parts of the United States he would be merely “native white” of native
parentage (Adams, 20).
Thus many
factors contributed and continue to contribute to the study of race in Hawaii.
And while the “special conditions of the past” no longer apply in contemporary
society, they have nonetheless shaped and continue to shape the value system in
place in Hawaii.
The legal history of interracial marriage, or lack thereof, in
Hawaii also played an important role in creating a tolerant community. Only
eight states and the District of Columbia never enacted antimiscegenation laws
(Kennedy 219). The lack of antimiscegenation laws allowed racial communities in
Hawaii to out marry without the threat of legal repercussions. In most states
marrying out carried severe punishments.
By 1913, when Wyoming became the last state to impose a statutory impediment to
marital miscegenation, forty-one others had already enacted similar laws, and in
so doing armed public authorities and private persons with the means to create
and police racial divisions in matters of sex and matrimony. Every state
whose black population reached or exceeded 5 percent of the total eventually
drafted and enacted anti-miscegenation laws. In 1967, when the federal Supreme
Court belatedly invalidated anti-miscegenation statues, sixteen states still had
laws on the books forbidding interracial marriage (Kennedy 219).
Although
anti-miscegenation laws mainly targeted black-white marriages they also applied
to other minorities. Furthermore, the tardiness of the Supreme Court in
invalidating these arcane laws reflects the intolerance of interracial
relationships in the continental United States. The laws ordained by the State
and Federal governments play a large role in the everyday lives of American
citizens; therefore, the legal history of Hawaii with its lack of
anti-miscegenation laws reflects the beliefs and values of the people there.
Historically, the difference in
racial classification in Hawaii (prior to statehood) and the United States,
brought up by Adams in the preceding paragraph, illustrates the difference in
attitudes towards race in the two locations. In an article by Margaret A.
Parkman and Jack Sawyer, they mention the fact that only eight different racial
groups were counted in Hawaii, suggesting that only certain larger racial
groups, for example, Chinese, Japanese, Hawaiian, Filipino, Korean, haole
(white), Portuguese, Puerto Rican or hapa, were encouraged to embrace their
identity (594). The ethnic humor found in Hawaii deliberately promotes racial
stereotypes of these larger minority groups and celebrates the aspects of a
multiracial community, but also maintains open social borders and boundaries.
In “Multiracial Comedy as a Commodity in Hawaii”, Darby Li Po Price quotes Andy
Bumatai, a local comedian who on a trip to the California is classified as
“non-White” at a film audition, ‘“It’s interesting to be categorized by what
you’re not, because here [in Hawaii] we categorize so strongly by what you are’”
(124). Scholars have constantly cited
this widespread acknowledgement of the many facets of a multiracial identity, as
a reason Hawaii is a “multiracial paradise”. As Price notes, however, “…Hawaii
itself is both a multiethnic paradise and an ethnic boiling pot” (129).
The difference in racial classifications between Hawaii and mainland America
exemplifies the different demographics and way of looking at race in Hawaii.
The island’s dual identity as both melting and boiling pot and demographic
differences, encourages the study of how people from Hawaii maintain or lose
their identity and values in a different environment.
In any evaluation of the identity
and value system of Hawaii’s residents the issue of tolerance must be studied.
Adams suggests tolerance in Hawaii stems from the negotiation of contemporary
and traditional ideas of race.
There is tolerance toward conduct that conflicts with one’s traditional
standards. Such tolerance involves a subtle modification of attitude in
relation to one’s own conduct. He comes to be tolerant of himself. Old
standards are not compulsory. One considers them. They are useful under some
circumstances but need not be observed in other cases. Decisions tend to be
made from the standpoint of interest or advantage. Sacred things become less
sacred or even secular. In short, a man is gradually emancipated from the more
distinctive part of his ancient mores so that he can reflect about his behavior
and choose what to do according to his purpose (Adams 314).
In Hawaii racial
and ethnic groups could not afford to hold on as tightly to their traditions.
The idea of tolerance of oneself is particularly relevant for multiracial
individuals. In the continental United States multiracial people often find it
hard to form an identity that reflects their racial heritage. This consciousness
and struggle to exist as multiple races illustrates the intensity and prevalence
of racial segregation on the mainland (Moran 178). In contrast, the magnitude of the hapa community in Hawaii creates an
almost social unawareness of multiracial individuals. While the community is not
indifferent to the social ramifications of interracial relationships,
multiracial persons rarely face a daily struggle with their racial heritage.
For hapas already struggling
with their identity, dating and relationships can often be tricky to navigate.
Even for single race people dating and relationships in our racial conscious
society is difficult. Statistics in the United States show that over 93 percent
of whites and blacks marry within their race and approximately 70 percent of
Asians and Latinos marry within their race (Moran 117). These statistics imply
a certain amount of self-segregation that makes crossing racial boundaries
through dating even more difficult. The racial mixing that occurs through
dating and relationships at college results from a combination of the desire to
challenge and expand one’s social boundaries and the racial demographics on
college campuses.
Dating can be
broken down into four categories according to an article by James K. Skipper Jr.
and Gilbert Nass in the Journal of Marriage and the Family; recreation,
socialization, status conveyance, and courtship (412-413). Although the article
was written in 1966 this framework for dating still provides insight into the
social interactions precipitated by dating, especially on college campuses. The
increasing importance placed on diversity in the classroom has provided students
with greater access to different racial groups making it even more important for
college students to be aware of race relations.
For students from
Hawaii the diversity provided by mainland college campuses has a distinctly
different feel from Hawaii’s version of diversity. The predominately Asian
character of Hawaii’s population in conjunction with the emphasis placed on the
differences within the various ethnicities in the Asian community greatly
contrast with the still predominately white majority of most college campuses.
The large population of Asians in Hawaii also helps to create an environment
where interracial sexual relationships are acceptable. Many mixed ethnic Asian
marriages happen in Hawaii. Since the Asian community in Hawaii is so large
most Asians identify not as Asian Americans, but as specific ethnic groups.
Outside of Hawaii and some West Coast states, multiethnic Asians very rarely
exist. Overcoming historical tensions between ethnic Asian groups to have an
interethnic marriage encourages interracial marriages and racial and ethnic
tolerance. The highly politicized version of race found on these campuses may
also be a foreign concept for the Hawaii student. In Hawaii there is an
awareness of cultures more than race and the boundaries created by race. By
studying the intimate and personal relationships produced by dating we can
better understand how the value system imprinted by growing up in Hawaii reacts
to changing demographics and racial awareness.
RESEARCH METHODS
Primary research was conducted
by surveying Hawaii residents currently in college or recently graduated from
college and surveying Hawaii residents about to go to college. To qualify as a
Hawaii resident for the purposes of this study, participants must have attended
high school in Hawaii. Since dating and relationship practices are usually
formed during high school, the attendance of high school in Hawaii was
determined sufficient to convey the values growing up in Hawaii. In addition to
the surveys, three volunteers were selected from the survey participants for
personal interviews.
The survey for
the current college students or recent graduates was done online using the
Internet survey provider my3q.com. Emails containing a link to the online
survey were sent to 2002 alumni of Punahou School, a private high school in
Honolulu. Participants were asked to answer nine questions that asked about
personal background and opinions on interracial dating and relationships. The
first question determined the gender of the participant. The gender of the
participants was intended to be approximately equal but the voluntary nature of
the survey resulted in more female respondents. The second question asked
participants to identify their racial heritage. The choices given were Asian,
Black, Haole/Caucasian, Hispanic/Latino, Native American, Pacific Islander, and
Hapa. In the third question participants were asked to identify the location of
their college from East Coast, Midwest, West Coast, Hawaii, or International.
Questions four through eight dealt with the participants’ opinions on dating and
relationships prior to college and in college. The questions were: Would you
be willing to date someone of a different race? Prior to college did you ever
date/have a relationship with someone of a different race? Has your opinion on
interracial dating/relationships changed since attending college? Since
attending college have you ever dated/had a relationship with someone of another
race? Question nine asked for the participants’ consent to be in the survey and
informed the participants’ of the anonymity of their responses. The researcher
had no access to the names or email addresses connected to any of the completed
surveys. The survey was also prefaced with information about the research
project and the contact information of the researcher in the event questions
about the project arose.
The survey provided for the
pre-college students was a variation of the college students’ survey. However,
these surveys were done on paper and handed out and collected by a third party
to protect the anonymity of the participants. No names or other identifiers
were placed on any of the surveys. Additionally no survey was completed in the
presence of the researcher and the surveys received the same preface about the
project and contact information in the event of questions as the online survey.
Questions one through six and question nine remained the same for the
pre-college participants and only questions seven and eight changed as
participants were asked to predict their future behavior.
To maintain the security of the
data, all paper surveys were destroyed after the data was correlated and the
online surveys were erased from the server. The data from both groups of survey
participants for each question was graphed and charted separately and will be
presented later in the paper. Comparisons between the two participant groups
were also made for questions seven and eight to look for differences in their
answers.
In addition to the 31 surveys
collected, three personal interviews were conducted with two female and one male
volunteer. These participants were chosen to represent the widest variety of
Hawaii college students. The interviewees reflected both racial diversity and
college location diversity. Contact with the participants was confidential and
to preserve anonymity identifiers with no connection to the participants were
used to note meeting times and places. Meetings were all conducted at the
discretion of the interviewee. Prior to the interview, the interviewees were
presented with a consent form that discussed the terms of the interview and
their participation in the study. Special attention was paid to alert the
participants about the confidentiality and anonymity of their responses. Once
the interview was completed participants received monetary compensation of
twenty dollars. All responses were recorded with permission from the
interviewee. The researcher transcribed all of recorded conversations using the
assigned identifier and then erased the recordings.
An additional interview was
conducted with Dr. Christine Yano, Associate Professor of Anthropology at the
University of Hawaii at Manoa. Dr. Yano’s research focuses on the cross
construction of nation and culture, particularly in the forms of popular culture
(University of Hawai’i at Manoa Department of Anthropology). She is also
interested in the concept of hapa. Dr. Yano’s personal experiences of growing
up in Hawaii, going to college on the mainland, and being in an interracial
marriage also qualified her as an authority on the research being conducted for
this study. Her interview was recorded and transcribed similar to the other
interviews. She received a small token of appreciation for her participation in
the study. Excerpts from all four interviews will appear in the data section of
this paper.
In addition to the researchers
collection of primary data, extensive archival work was done. U.S. Census
Bureau data was collected on the Internet for current demographic statistics.
JSOTR was used to collect journal articles on interracial marriage and
dating on college campuses. The Hawaii State Public Library also provided
archival information in the form of recently published books on interracial
relationships and material from the early twentieth century on interracial
marriage in Hawaii.
DATA AND RESULTS
First the survey data will be
presented in the form of bar graphs. Following the graphical data will be
verbal explanations of the results. The comparison tables created from the U.S.
Census Bureau data will follow, along with a verbal description of the tables.
Excerpts from the four interviews will then round out the data and results
section.
The following eight graphs illustrate the
responses given by the participants in college or recently graduated from
college.

Figure 1 illustrates the ratio of male (6)
to female (9) participants who responded to the survey. Overall the gap between
the genders was small enough to provide accurate results for the survey. Gender
differences did not appear to have an effect on the subject matter being
studied. Furthermore, this study did not take into account differences in
opinions based on gender. A study on how gender differences influence thoughts
on interracial dating and relationships would be a good follow up study.

Figure 2 reflects the racial background of
the participants. As of the 2003 census data, Asians make up approximately 42
percent of the population, whites 24 percent, and hapa 21 percent in Hawaii
(U.S. Census Bureau). These racial statistics, therefore, are representative of
the state.

Figure 3 shows the various college
locations of the participants. The high percentage of participants on the East
Coast is unusual since generally students from Hawaii either remain in Hawaii or
attend school on the West Coast. Since this study looks at the effect of
attending college on the mainland, the atypically large number of students at
school on the East Coast most likely does not affect the results.

Figure 4’s unanimous result of “yes”
reflects the multiracial rules of attraction in Hawaii. Generally in Hawaii,
people view hapa as the most attractive of all racial groups. However, it would
be interesting to see if societal pressures against racism would force mainland
subjects of the same group into a similar response.

Figure 5 also shows a unanimous yes. The
difference between the questions in figure 4 and 5 lies in the idea that being
attracted to someone does not automatically make them a suitable dating
partner. The 100 percent “yes” result, therefore, implies that race is not a
factor when choosing a partner. It would be interesting, however, to know if
there are any specific races that people would feel uncomfortable dating, or not
find attractive.

Figure 6 charts the participants’ previous
dating history, most likely high school dating practices. The high percentage
of “yes” answers is expected given the racial history of Hawaii.

Figure 7 shows that most participants’
opinions on interracial dating were not influenced by the external factors at
college. Those with a “yes” answer may be in areas where the environment is
very demographically different from Hawaii, surrounded by people with very
different politics, or/and academia has changed the way they think.

Figure 8 shows a slight decrease in the
number of participants who have had an interracial relationship from figure 6.
The difference is small enough to be insignificant. Also this result does not
take into account the possibility that interracial relationships started in high
school may continue in college.
The next set of figures, 9 thru 16,
represents the data collected from the pre-college participants.

Figure 9 shows the inequality of male and
female participants. This may cause some error, but since the study does not
focus on the opinion differences between males and females these statistics
should have little bearing on the outcome of the data collected. Furthermore,
these participants have had little to no experience with the notions of Asian
male emasculation and the exoticization of the Asian female that are prevalent
in the continental United States (Moran 106). The differences in dating
practices for males and females in Hawaii are not affected by racialized gender
differences as they are in college so the gender discrepancy in the study should
not be important.


Figure 11 reflects the locations of the
colleges these participants will be attending in the fall. Again the high
percentage of East Coast colleges is unusual for Hawaii students in general.
The complete lack of students remaining in Hawaii must also be noted. However
this should have no impact on the results of this study.


Figure 13 shows the exact same results as
figure 12. This correlation could be because at this age the participants may
not understand or think about the courtship aspect of dating. The participants
could also equate dating with attractiveness. The two “no” answers could be
attributed to the idea that a hapa person would want to marry another hapa
person so technically they would be of the same race. The “no” answers could
also be explained by the generation differences in the participants. For
example, a first generation participant may only want to marry within the race.

Figure 14’s numbers are almost identical to
the numbers produced by the college group of participants. These results imply
consistency in the attitudes and dating practices of this generation of
participants.

Figure 15 shows that prior to college the
participants felt very strongly that their opinions towards interracial
relationships would not change. A follow up study done after these subjects had
completed a year of college would be very informative in determining if values
learned growing up remain static when tested by new environments.

Figure 16 again contains the expected
numbers. A follow up study should be done to see if participants did have
interracial relationships in college. It would be interesting to see if any of
the “no” participants changed their answers to “yes”, or if any of the “yes”
participants changed their answers to “no” due to college demographics and
self-segregation of minority communities. The N/A response could be for any
number of reasons, but since it is only one person it has no effect on the
results of this study.

Figure 17 compares the opinions of the
college participants and the pre-college participants. These results for
college participants show that Hawaii students are not immune to the politics of
race on college campuses. The survey, however, did not take into account the
degree of opinion change or the direction of the change. The large percentage
of pre-college participants who do not anticipate change as compared to the
percentage of college participants who experienced no change could be due to a
number of factors, such as expected diversity on campus.

Figure 18 illustrates the opinions of
college and pre-college participants on interracial dating in college. Both
groups provided similar percentages. The seemingly accurate prediction by the
pre-college participants of their future dating practices supports the idea that
opinions on race and racial interactions is determined prior to college. The
results also may be influenced by the race of the respondent, which was not
noted in correlation to their answers.
The following tables contain data obtained
from the U.S. Census Bureau and illustrate the demographic differences between
Hawaii’s population and the population of the United States as a whole.
|
|
(Source: U.S.
Census Bureau) |
|
White |
Total |
216,930,975 |
|
|
Combination |
5,470,349 |
|
|
Percentage |
3% |
|
Black or African
American |
Total |
36,419,434 |
|
|
Combination |
1,761,244 |
|
|
Percentage |
5% |
|
American Indian and
Alaska Native |
Total |
4,119,301 |
|
|
Combination |
1,643,345 |
|
|
Percentage |
40% |
|
Asian |
Total |
11,898,828 |
|
|
Combination |
1,655,830 |
|
|
Percentage |
14% |
|
Native Hawaiian and
Pacific Islander |
Total |
874,414 |
|
|
Combination |
475,579 |
|
|
Percentage |
54% |
|
Some Other Race |
Total |
18,521,486 |
|
|
Combination |
3,162,413 |
|
|
Percentage |
17% |
|
General
Demographics: 2000 |
(Source: U.S.
Census Bureau) |
|
|
United States |
Hawaii |
|
Total Population |
273,643,273 |
1,175,755 |
|
One Race |
97.85% |
78.68% |
|
Two or More Races |
2.15% |
21.32% |
|
General
Demographics: 2003 |
(Source: U.S.
Census Bureau) |
|
|
United States |
Hawaii |
|
Total Population |
282,909,885 |
1,221,885 |
|
One Race |
98.11% |
78.90% |
|
Two or More Races |
1.89% |
21.10% |
Table 2 compares the demographics of Hawaii
and the United States in 2000 and 2003. As expected, Hawaii has a much higher
rate of multiracial people, especially in proportion. 2000 was the first year
the U.S. Census allowed and 2003 is the most recent Census data available. The
slight decline in people that identify as mixed race seems contrary to
contemporary notions that the hapa population is increasing. The difference
could also not be significant enough to imply anything. Furthermore, the
three-year difference is not a large gap for comparison purposes.
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