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Tuesday, May 01, 2001 |
| 8 to 8 student counselors listen
with care from 7 to 7
by Rachael Slivka
Though some students may find themselves overwhelmed with stress, depression, or the usual confusions of college life, not everyone is aware of a simple phone service that can help. 8 to 8 is an all-student-run listening and referral service available to the Wesleyan community every night from 7pm to 7am, including weekends. "It’s a good service that a lot of colleges have. It’s good when people
have things they want to talk about to have a place that can just listen
to them without judgement. That drew me to
Anonymity is kept on both sides, as the counselors use fake names so that no one should feel uncomfortable. The 8 to 8 listeners use pseydonuyms to refer to themselves. Some nights bring in a heavier stream of calls than others. The number
of calls received varies throughout the semester, though more people tend
to call after 8 to 8 chalkings have been
Trained students work in two shifts every night. The first shift is
from 7-11pm while the second shift is significantly longer from 11pm —
7am. As the name implies, 8 to 8 used to be open
"It’s an opportunity to make a difference. Even if you don’t know who
it is you’re talking to on the phone, you know that there are people walking
around on campus that you helped,"
The student counselors go through a very extensive training program
before they can become peer counselors. The application process itself
is quite intensive to assure that everyone
About mid-way through the semester, after students are accepted into
the program, they must then complete over 50 hours of training, enabling
them to handle the most difficult
"The best two months I have spent here at Wesleyan were the month I spent training and the month that I trained others," said ‘Scott,’ who served as one of the head trainers this year. Listeners are trained to handle a wide range of situations dealing with
subjects such as sexuality, eating disorders, family issues, death, dying,
loneliness, depression, religion, race and
"The training does make you reevaluate the way you talk and the way you listen, even just in everyday conversation. It helps you learn to keep an open mind," commented ‘Roger’. The students part of 8 to 8 put in a total of 1800-2000 volunteer hours
for the academic year. While the hours are long and the conversations sometimes
serious, those who volunteer their
"[8 to 8] is the absolute number one best thing that I’ve done at Wesleyan.
The people that are on the service are the best people that I’ve met while
here and people who I wouldn’t have
Should students have any concerns at all, they can reach 8 to 8 at x7789 from 7am to 7pm, every night all week, until classes end. |
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