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October 10, 2000
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Editorial:
Time for Unity Not Contempt
The recent barrage of negative chalkings directed against DKE has left
the Wesleyan community in a precarious position. While some believe these
chalkings are justified against a fraternity with an arguably homophobic
history, we believe they are more damaging to QA and the queer community
as a whole. The overall voice presented by the chalkings comes across as
a hypocritical, hate-filled attack, in direct contradiction with a mission
that should be more about communication and mutual understanding. It sets
up a dangerous "us vs. they" dichotomy, leading only to greater conflict.
While QA condemns slanderous comments made against queers, it finds no
problem in returning equally bigoted slander. The intended message of the
chalkings still remains unexplained for the year, and many only reinforce
the stereotypes already at work.
It is a sad reality that these chalkings don’t speak for the queer community
as a whole. Anonymous attacks by individuals with a confrontational agenda
serve more to scare questioning queers or those who seek unity back into
the closet. A significant queer population prefers not to identify with
QA for this reason, and we urge the current members to be more cautious
about the messages they convey. Unfortunately, their voice is the most
noticed and ends up stigmatizing others who do not share their opinions.
While we understand the chalkings are meant to provide solidarity and salience
to a community which is often ignored, lately they have been destroying
important progress toward harmony.
Gandhi succeeded through loving those who hated him. King’s dream was
all about walking hand-in-hand, not falling to the same level as those
who opposed him. The chalkings should be reevaluated in light of how far
we’ve all come and a more positive message should be achieved. A time for
healing is in order.
It’s easy to throw a stone at your enemy and label him a "homophobe,"
but it’s harder still to talk to him and help him understand the consequences
of his views. In the end, the only way the hate will stop is to stop hating
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