Robert
Coles is a world-renowned child psychologist, professor, and author of more
than fifty books. His greatest acclaim has come from his research of children’s
lives and the subsequent books that search through their moral, political and
spiritual lives. In his book the Moral Life of Children Robert Coles poses many
questions. He puts forth many possibilities, however, he gives very few
answers. In this book he gives his subjects an opportunity to speak to the
world through him. Rather than giving his opinions on what they had to say and
what they went through he tries to have the reader see through their eyes and
then understand the morals that they have, believing that their stories could
stand on their own. Though this makes for an incredibly interesting book it
also makes it very difficult to draw out one main point. Instead of giving
reasons for children having a specific moral outlook or set of beliefs he shows
us a trend that appears to exist with children in certain kinds of situations.
He uses the stories to circle around certain points and themes but does not
have a single jumping off point from which all his other insights and ideas
progress. He shows us that the race and socio-economic position of a child and
its family is incredibly important in determining the moral outlook that the
child will have. However he still poses the question of why certain children in
a difficult situations turn out to be incredibly moral people always working
for the benefit of the people around them, with their own happiness as an after
thought. This is an unanswered, and probably unanswerable, question. Though
throughout the book we see that parents have a great affect on the child and
the way it will turn out it is important to know that they too are shaped by their
circumstances and position. He spends most of the book concentrating on
children who are in very difficult circumstances like Ruby, a little girl in
New Orleans who was the first black student to go to a white school, or
Eduardo, a poor boy who lives in a favela in Rio de Janeiro and must find
someway to help himself and his family. He shows us that the ideas and beliefs
that these children have are instilled not only by their parents but also by
every sight, sound, moment or event that has occurred in their life or around
them. Coles sees that little children can have all these incredible moral
qualities that seem to be born out of almost nowhere like an acute moral
sensitivity, a moral notice that is often not shared by adults and a sense of
moral purpose.
Early
in the Moral Life of Children Coles addresses the issue moral development
within children. In order to illustrate this idea he uses several very
different examples. The first is Ruby, a six-year-old black girl from New
Orleans. She was the girl that initiated school desegregation in New Orleans.
For many terrible months this poor little girl had to endure the threats and
slurs of mobs of white people, who heckled her every day on her way to and from
school. Due to these hordes of racist people she had to be brought back and
forth from school by Federal Marshals. If this wasn’t bad enough she attended
school in solitude for a large portion of the year because all the white
parents took their children out of the school. However she was unswerving in
her dedication to what she was doing, she never appeared to doubt the cause or
resent her tormentors she just bore her responsibility with a smile. This
intrigued Robert Coles as it did many of the teachers they were curious how
this very young child could endure such pain and difficulty. He was interested
in the fact that rather than hating or resenting the hateful people that
heckled her everyday, she actually prayed for them every night before she went
to bed. When he questioned her on it he saw that she was told to pray for bad
people by her minister, and that’s exactly what she did. Rather than
questioning her circumstances she simply looked to god saying that he would
protect her and her family. Coles came to the conclusion that she was being
psychologically imitative. She was taking phrases, statements, and portions of
sermons and using them as a justification for what was going on. He says that
rather than making truly moral decisions Ruby all her smiles and prayers were
more gestures than the responses of a truly moral and reflective person. He
believes this is true because according to Lawrence Kohlberg “moral development
is therefore a result of an increasing ability to perceive social reality or to
organize and integrate social experience. One necessary-but not sufficient-
condition for principled morality is the ability to reason logically.” He goes
on to say, “the main determinants of moral development seem to be the amount
and variety of social experiences, the opportunity to take in a number of roles
and to encounter other perspectives.” In Ruby’s case her age as well as her
race and socio-economic position as the daughter of poor black parents of rural
background would limit the amount of social variety that she would have access
to. Thus according to Coles she was a “premoral” girl more gesturing than
making decisions based on her own set of derived beliefs.
However
this idea of moral development doesn’t seem to hold true when we look at other
examples like the example of a 14-year-old white boy in Atlanta. This happens
to be a boy from a poor family that for all practical purposes would be labeled
as “rednecks”. A boy who by these standards would not have the variety of
social experience to make truly moral decisions, but who made a truly incredible
moral decisions with great personal sacrifice. He was the first white boy to
speak with a black student in his newly desegregated school. Though this boy
was staunchly opposed to desegregation and at their initial entrance into the
school had the same feelings towards black students as all his brethren in a
short time he began to feel for the black students. In his own words this young
man said “I’d be as I was, I guess, but for bring in school that year and
seeing that kid- seeing him behave himself, no matter what we called him, and
seeing him being insulted so bad, so real bad. Something in me just drew the
line, and something in me began to change, I think.” When this young white boy
began to defense a black student from the mobs of white students he made a
moral decision. He saw the injustice of the situation and chose to do something
about it. Though with the previous definition of moral development that we get
it would appear that he should not have been able to make such a moral
decision, he did and it changed his life forever. This makes it necessary to
reevaluate Ruby and possibly the definition of moral development. When we look
at Ruby at nine years old there is one comment that seems especially important
she says looking back that “ we inched a little closer to God, and because we
did we became a little better ourselves.” This comment makes Cols and the
reader realize that the task that she undertook in desegregating schools was
not one which she was simply given and complied with obediently, but a task
that she stuck with because at least on some level she understood the
importance of what she was doing.
However
these difficult situations don’t always breed a moral character like the one
that we found in Ruby or the young Atlanta boy. A great example to illustrate
this is that of Hank, a poor young white boy from New Orleans. He grew up with
a heavy drinking, bigoted, carpenter for a father and a sympathetic,
overworked, and kind-hearted mother. In his early years Hank seemed like a very
nice boy taking much more after his mother than his father. When asked about
Ruby he felt bad for her and he sympathized. He was curious how she endured
such horrible conditions. However as he got older his father’s beliefs began to
creep in to his moral awareness. His father who always believed he was and
presented himself as a victim, except for when he was beating his wife and
children. The linkages for his fathers feelings are fairly apparent according
to Cols they result from “poverty, occupational insecurity, limited
possibilities for personal and economic advancement, the vulnerability…all
these becoming connected to a sense that others, also vulnerable, like blacks,
are getting out of hand, getting ahead, hence they present yet another danger
in a world already fearful, threatening, even rapacious.” This clearly shows
why someone in Hank’s father’s position would take these views but it is
important to see how these ideas creep into Hank’s moral awareness. How one
child in Atlanta faced with poverty and racial prejudice finds a way to make a
moral leap, going against the grain, while one in New Orleans follows in the
footsteps of his less than noble father. This question appears to be
unanswerable as evinced by Cols’ comment that “I have witnessed their courage
and tried to comprehend it- with little luck, as far as psychiatric
characterization goes.
Another
important aspect of children’s moral life is their moral notice. Coles sees
that children have a different moral notice than adults do. The issues that
they find morally compelling or important are much different than those that
stimulate adults. This is seen in two examples how children relate to movies
and how children related to the nuclear arms race at its height. In discussing
films Coles shows several things one that “the diversity of stimulation that
emerges from several characters embedded in a complex plot, and the
considerable latitude of awareness and moral concern in an audience,” imbues
the viewer with a certain moral energy that arises from having their moral
outlook stimulated. Also as suggested in the words of an anything but ordinary
young child, by the name of Ruby, was the idea that “fictional characters have
a collective voice that occasionally intrudes upon the other voices within us,
and exerts an influence on how we behave.” In her exact words she said, in
reference to A Raisin in the Sun, “if
all the white people on the street [who were heckling her mercilessly] saw that
movie, they might stop coming out to bother us… because the people in the
movies would work on them, and maybe they’d listen.” At a tender young age she
saw that these characters and images that we view could enter our moral
awareness and have considerable effects. The point that was most compelling to
Coles was the fact that what he believed the children would view as important,
or what he viewed as the most important moral issues, was not what the children
picked up on. This made him realize that children have a very different moral
notice than adults do. In seeing A Raisin in the Sun rather than focusing on
the racial issues of the movie Ruby found the most interest in a scene having
to do with the interaction of the mother and the daughter. Another example was
the film To Kill a Mockingbird. When children viewed this Coles found that many
rather than focusing on Atticus Finch or the racial issues took more interest
in the subplot between Boo Radley, the next door neighbor of Atticus Finch and
his daughter Scout, and Scout and her two friends. The children in the film are
rather curious about their recluse of a neighbor. In the end it turns out that
he is kind and caring man who has been keeping his eye on the children all
summer. This becomes completely clear when he saves them from an attacker by
killing him. Its interesting that these children focused on the relationship
between Boo and the children, and his evolution as a character from a recluse
that everyone feared to what he really was a kind and gentle man that was
simply misunderstood. These kinds of examples show that children put moral
value in things that are much different then what adults believe they should
but more often than not these are things that have a greater relationship to
their everyday lives. He sees that children put emphasis on what is concrete
and readily understandable rather than on complex abstract ideas that adults
may deem important.
Another,
more direct, example of this moral notice is the way children saw the nuclear
arms race. Growing up with the constant thought of nuclear bombs raining down
upon your head could be stressing for any child. However Coles noticed that the
kids he was interviewing were hardly interested or informed on this important
world issue. Once again he saw that things that are linked to their everyday lives
compel children. They find interest in issues that they can relate to
themselves. In his own words “children know and favor the concrete, an abstract
moral issue is hard for them to comprehend as thoroughly as real and pressing.”
In speaking to poor children living in the rural south at the time of the
nuclear arms race he discovered that they had no real knowledge or
understanding of the nuclear threat that existed. The more pressing problems
that come along with poverty, like hunger discrimination, and injustice,
appeared to be the ones that stuck out in their minds. This is interesting
however not at all surprising. In middle class families Coles found that
children were much more informed and interested on issues having to do with the
nuclear arms race. This probably derives form the fact that when kids don’t
have to worry about the day-to-day struggle to survive they have time to
concern themselves with larger less imminent issues. These were the issues that
stimulated their moral awareness as shown by a young black girl who said “if
the Ku Klux Klan ever got that bomb, it would be real bad for us.”
The point that I found most
compelling in this entire book was the idea of moral purpose. George Orwell
wrote, “The truth is that many of the qualities we admire in human beings can
only function in opposition to some kind of disaster, pain or difficulty.” This
idea that the qualities that we find truly admirable only come through in the
adversity is echoed in Robert Coles’ research. Many of the children that he has
interviewed seem to have formed some sort of purpose, a moral purpose, which
pushes them on despite their difficult circumstances. This purpose always seems
to be to endure. Whether it is to endure through the heckling mobs of racist
white people or through the hunger pangs and disease that come along with
poverty. Coles himself says “moral purpose comes down to an often professed
desire to stay alive, to stay free, and to stay worthy of adults whom he has
had occasion to respect, no matter how flawed, limited, inadequate they may
be.”
We look at Ruby and we wonder how she persevered. We wonder how she managed to stay stable through that constant heckling and how through all this turmoil she never cracked. Ruby never thought about leaving school and escaping her problems. Throughout her entire ordeal she maintained clarity of thought and knowledge of her purpose and the role that she was playing not only in New Orleans but also in the entire nation. She endured because she had moral purpose, which would not be bent or broken by the circumstances that she was in. Ruby as Orwell said displayed the qualities that we find admirable, namely courage, faith and selflessness, when she forced into a situation wrought with pain and difficulty. Though all this occurred she stood by her beliefs. Ruby stuck to her belief in god and to the belief that what she was doing was right. Ruby kept faith in the fact that god would protect her.
Another case is that of
Eduardo, a poor boy living on the streets of Rio de Janeiro. Eduardo is a
ten-year-old child who is doing his best to provide for him and fairly large
family. In the difficult streets of Rio he is somewhat of an entrepreneur he
begs, sells things, does odd jobs, and scrounges for every cent he can get.
Though he undertakes all these tasks partly for himself he has a larger goal
behind it, to keep his family alive. In his own words “I’d better bring home
some money, or the baby won’t eat too many more meals.” It is this sense of
purpose, this fight to survive, that characterizes Eduardo’s life. However with
all the odds stacked against him Eduardo still refused without hesitation to
take more lucrative jobs working for criminals. He would rather scrounge and
battle on the street than take jobs running errands for gamblers or selling
narcotics. This refusal to commit crime in the face of incredible odds shows
that behind his main purpose of survival is a deeper morality that guides it.
Throughout his work Robert Coles shows us these children in adverse
situations, some thrive under the pressure and show the true strength of their
character while others succumb to their circumstances, becoming evil and
immoral. He never gives the reader an answer for why some children turn out
like the heroic Ruby while others, like Hank, follow the less moral route. What
Coles does explain to us is that the moral outlook that children have is born
out of their racial and economic position. He shows that a poor white person in
the south at the time of segregation would often turn out to be racist due to
his or her own position in society. The weakness and vulnerability that these
poor people feel because of their economic position would cause them to
perceive any group that is improving itself as a threat to them. He explains
that even if a child takes on the beliefs of its parents the child is still, in
essence, being molded by the group within which it exists because that same
group molded the child’s parents. Even though a parents beliefs have a great
influence on the development of a child and its moral faculties, when we
realize that parents are molded by the
group that they are born into we can see that it is less the parent than the
race or class. Let us take for instance Ruby she was incredibly religious and
drew much of her strength and courage from a belief in god. Her parents
instilled this belief in her, which was instilled in them by theirs. This
devout faith however was not an exception to the rule; this devout faith in god
was the rule in the rural black community of the south. Coles himself noticed
that with all the black children he spoke with god was a primary issue,
something that was very different with many other groups. Another important
point is that the moral notice he discussed is not something that is simply different
for children but for people in different economic classes. When you are
struggling to eek out a living and to feed your family it is very difficult to
take notice of world affairs, it is only when you have time and a bit of
security that you can truly contemplate things outside of your immediate
predicament. This idea was clear when Coles noticed that many more children
from middle class families knew and were concerned about what was going on in
the nuclear arms race as compared to poorer children. He saw that the concerns
of the poor from one nation to another were often more closely linked than
those of the poor and the middle class from the same nation. Though Coles’
makes a very strong argument for why economic position and race mold the moral
consciousness of a child he doesn’t explain all the phenomenal children that he
finds. If we all simply gained the moral outlook of our group then all or
almost all the members of any group would turn out the same. If a group were
corrupt then all its members would be corrupt. If a group were courageous its
members would be courageous. However we all know that that is not the way it
works. In our society we have the morally upright and the morally corrupt in
every race and economic class. So we must ask the same question that Coles’
does when talking to Eduardo “Why is it that some people who bear awful pain
turn out to be so very nice, whereas others turn out not so nice at all, or
worse?” Coles’ himself could not come up with an answer but in my estimation an
uneducated ten-year-old boy named Eduardo did. On that day with almost no
hesitation he responded “A throw of the dice.” That’s what are lives are in the
end where we’re born, to whom we’re born, how we’re raised its all just a throw
of the dice, a shot in the dark. Coles’ learned this from a group of uneducated
yet incredibly moral children, like Ruby and Eduardo, and we can all learn a
little more about what it is to be moral through his telling of their stories.