Take Back the Night
October 2007
Schedule of Events

Take Back the Night is an annual event at Wesleyan University and college campuses nationwide to raise awareness about sexual violence.

Planned by the Take Back the Night Planning Committee
with support from WesWELL's Peer Health Advocates

Unless otherwise noted, please direct questions
to Carolyn Ariori or Liz Weisman.


Click on an event or activity for more information:


Narrative Submissions
In order to represent the voices of those who may not be otherwise heard, we are seeking written submissions of narratives from those who have experienced sexual assault or been impacted by sexual violence. The content of the narrative is entirely up to the author and will not be edited before being read.

Narratives will be read anonymously on the author's behalf at a Speakout Circle during the TBTN March. The readers will be reminded that they should not read the narratives dramatically, and that they need to be sensitive and respectful to the author's experience.

If you wish to submit a narrative, please send it through campus mail to WesWELL, Davison Health Center by Thursday, October 18th. You may also submit it by email to weswell@wesleyan.edu. While all submissions will remain confidential and anonymous, you may choose to send it from a non-Wesleyan email account that does not use your name or identify you in any manner.


Clothesline Project

  • What is the Clothesline Project?
    The Clothesline Project (CLP) is a program started on Cape Cod, MA, in 1990 to address the issue of violence against women. It is a vehicle for women affected by violence to express their emotions by decorating a shirt. They then hang the shirt on a clothesline to be viewed by others as testimony to the problem of violence against women.

    The CLP started at Wesleyan in 2005, but it has been used in association with Take Back the Night or on its own at other schools. At Wesleyan, these "shirts" will instead be pieces of white fabric (or flags), to be decorated by students affected by sexual assault or in support of those who have.  The CLP was initially started as a women-specific event, but Wesleyan's event will be open to all students.  
     

  • What can I put on my flag?
    Wesleyan's CLP encourages students who have been affected by sexual assault to decorate a flag.  Students who have not been affected are also invited to decorate flags in support of those who have.  

    Flags can be used to say anything you need to about sexual assault, whether it is your own story, a message to an abuser or victim, a picture, or a fact.  All of the flags are completely anonymous, so say whatever you need to. However, please do not use names on your flag, unless you have express permission.

    This project has been an extremely powerful tool at other schools, and it is also a very emotional issue.  Please make a flag, but please also take this seriously.
     

  • How can I get involved in the Clothesline Project?
    Stop by the CLP table in Usdan at lunch and dinner on Wednesday, October 17 through Friday, October 19. Residence Life staff will also have access to flags.
     

  • When and where will the Clothesline Project be displayed?
    The CLP will be displayed in front of the former Campus Center (Davenport) from Monday, October 21 to Friday, October 26.

Take Back the Night Rally & March
Tuesday, October 23rd at 7:00pm
Steps of Olin Library

Take Back the Night is an annual event at Wesleyan University and college campuses nationwide to raise awareness about sexual violence.  This event is an opportunity for the Wesleyan community to gather in support of survivors of sexual assault and for those survivors to share their stories in a safe space. The concept behind "taking back the night" is that the night should be safe for everyone. 

Beginning with a rally at the steps of Olin at 7:00pm on Tuesday, October 23rd, we will march to several locations on campus for speak-out circles (which will include the reading of narrative submissions), concluding with a candlelight vigil.  Everyone is encouraged to attend and participate in this important and powerful event.       


Post-March Debriefing Sessions
Tuesday, October 23rd
10:30pm to Midnight (after the conclusion of the March)

Join a post-march debriefing session to process what you have experienced at the Take Back the Night March and heard in the Speakout Circles. Facilitators will be on hand to lead the discussions in these designated safe spaces.

  • Sessions Open to All Students

    • Hewitt Lounge

    • Butt B Lounge
       

  • Session Open ONLY to Female-Identified & Transgender Students

    • Usdan MPR (in the basement)

The Office of Behavioral Health for Students will be open for any student who wishes to talk with a therapist on Tuesday, October 23 from 7:00pm to 9:00pm (during the march). Enter the Davison Health Center from Parking Lot N (between the Health Center and Malcolm X House). After this time, students may contact the 24-hour on-call therapist by calling 685-2910 and following the voicemail prompts.


Discussion Forums
Several forums will be held for students to discuss the ways sexual assault impacts themselves and their communities. Contact Carolyn Ariori or Liz Weisman for more information. 
 

  • Student of Color Forum
    Sunday, October 21 ~ 5:00 - 6:00pm ~ 200 Church
     

  • Men's Forum
    Monday, October 22 ~ 7:00 - 8:00pm ~ Beta
     

  • Queer Forum
    Monday, October 22 ~ 6:00 - 7:00pm ~ Open House
     

  • "What is Consent?" Discussion
    Wednesday, October 24 ~ 8:00pm
    Davison Health Center Solarium (enter from CFA Green side of building)
    Cookies & cocoa will be served. Facilitated by the Peer Health Advocates. Contact Ari Tolman for more information.
     

  • Friends of Survivors Forum
    Thursday, October 25 ~ 6:00 - 7:00pm ~ Location TBA
     


Gravity: An Evening of Music with Katie D'Angelo
Saturday, October 20, 2007 ~ Beckham Hall in Fayerweather

Doors open at 6:15pm; Concert starts 7:00pm

Spend an evening listening to a live concert performance by singer/songwriter Katie D'Angelo while giving back to the community by raising funds for the Women & Families Center, a sexual assault crisis service provider in Middletown. Sponsored by WesWELL in association with Soul Star Healing

Admission: Donation of $5.00 (or more!) or in lieu of money, you may donate an item from this list:

  • sweat pants (Men's size M, L, XL)
  • sweat shirt (Men's size M, L, XL)
  • mouthwash (trial size)
  • deodorant (trial size)
  • slipper socks
  • small stuffed toy

All proceeds benefit the Women & Families Center.
Contact Lisa Currie (860.685.2466) with questions.


Self Defense Workshop
Sunday, October 28 ~ 5:00 - 6:00pm
Freeman Athletic Center MPR 2

Join teachers from the Small Forest Temple for this talk and demonstration on self defense. Learn basic knowledge of how to fend off an attacker, and breathing and meditation techniques to help you remain calm in a crisis, as well as how to be aware of your surroundings, in anticipation of an attack. 

Recruitment for "Unspeakable Acts"
WesWELL is recruiting current Wesleyan students to perform in the "Unspeakable Acts" skits on sexual assault and relationship violence during New Student Orientation 2008. Click here for more information on getting involved.

Resources

If you are interested in learning more about sexual assault and related issues, please click on the following links:

If you wish to speak to someone in a confidential setting, please contact:

  • Office of Behavioral Health for Students, 685.2910
    Davison Health Center, 327 High Street
    www.wesleyan.edu/obhs/
    On-call therapist available 24/7; call 685.2910 and follow the voicemail prompts.
     
  • Connecticut Sexual Assault Crisis Services
    www.connsacs.org
    Connecticut Statewide 24 Hour Toll Free Hotline
    • 1-888-999-5545 English
    • 1-888-568-8332 Espanol
       
  • The Network/La Red
    Ending abuse in lesbian, bisexual women's and transgender communities
    www.thenetworklared.org/

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